A girl said her attitudes are changing because she thinks her hair color doesn’t have to match her nature. Now she uses different color for her hair, lip, and by trying a range of colors she feels adventurous. She still fears not being taken seriously at work because some color is still perceived as edgy.

My friend said when in retrospect she thinks her self-sabotage is the reason she made bad decisions, which let her make first step to change herself; she likes shopping, but buying less makeup; she also decided to quit smoking, but she keeps buying cigarettes.

My neighbor is airline’s steward and she likes sports, arts, and makeup, and she met her guy in airport! At the time he was attracted by her look, together with her confidence while she just walking through the airport, so she said she letting him feel special, which is part of her job!

My neighbor’s sexy, powerful, because she likes fashion and makeup; but she found something weird, she said her friend is the opposite, she’s even sexless, but she gets more respect when they go to work, to social; so she feels she lives in a sexy bubble and even hear people call her a bitch.

My neighbor said she feels no energy but she has to work everyday. When she gets weight, even she eating less, diet, she wants to change, but her guy said she has to face another reality which is she’s going to have a baby, so she said she’s thinking differently, said like, “It’s better just to be a mother because she knows it well and it’s natural,” so she said she soon will not put makeup everyday and go to work.

My friend likes makeup, and her guy obsessed with her, but he lied about his past because she looked up his records, credit card statements. He also had drinking problem and she raised a red flag to make sure he’s telling the truth. She said her guy is weird in bed, but she’s been satisfied.

My coworker said she started to became a makeup fan because it could attract a potential male, impress a date and bolster her self-esteem. So she said when dating she always started her ritual of getting ready to go out: she darkens her eyes, reddens her lips, and she looks more feminine. 

My friend likes makeup, she said she worked for a company for so long, felt exhausted and finally got a promotion, which is her breaking point. Now she considers herself a late bloomer because she can say no to certain things, even though she complained about working there like a slave.

My friend said she learned a lesson because she used to like makeup, fantasizing things, so she would send messages to her crushes because she would ask which of her friends would she want to go on a date with. Since she liked to flirt, saying she liked their stuff in a vaguely pattern, then she got the same lies in return.

My friend said she worked hard and wanted to treat herself well. She liked makeup, eating healthy food, and when she and her partner went to restaurant, their dinner was not cheap, but she thought it was worth it.

My friend’s sensitive and can get subtle signal about herself because her job is not stable, and she feels the pain. Since her boyfriend is not good enough, she feels there’s psychological problems, because her physical pain is related to her sex life.

What’s Up: A girl said she knows all the things her friends do by asking: what’s up; she said they shopping together, buy makeup, jewelry; they also talking on the phone about their boyfriends, lover, breakup; but she also regrets something she’d done; sometimes she had devastating moment, feeling embarrassed, and she doesn’t know what she would do for her future.

My coworker is a tech girl, but she likes makeup, learned several foreign languages and she is also a health living specialist; when traveling around world she also knows many magical places. So her favorite city is Paris because she can shop, run around streets. She also likes beach and goes to Bali because she can wear a different bikini every day.

Enigma & Irony: If your creation, work, were controversial, criticized, you may change your styles; but you may find out some same critics later like your creation, works; so you may feel you’re still an enigma, your work, creation, still remains a riddle, but you are determined to let your voice be heard.

My neighbor said she knows very well about herself, even at home: she wears lash extensions, tints eyebrow, dies her hair. She also wears makeup at home. When someone asked her like, “Why?” She said like, “Because I have a lover.”

A girl said once she put makeup, went out partying and didn’t return home for the first time. She said she used to be honest, but this time she lied, and she slept with a man. She said her reason to lie was that she dated several guys and met a man she liked a little bit for the first time.

My friend said she knows how to look like the best version of herself: she starts with her face, making it flawless. She also uses skin product that can diminish redness, to create a dewy-skin effect, and evens out the complexion.

A friend said she liked makeup, but felt guilty, for she was not nice to her guy when she spending money. Because of her being a feminist with sharp tongue, her guilty extended to her friend, who was witty, and her mother, who was warm and lovely, so she felt lost.

My friend said she was adventurous because she grew up by discovering what the real world was. Since she wanted to experience all, including failure, nightmares, horror, she wanted to sex up, to start to her new adventure again after leaving her last ex.

A girl said she changed a lot after having a child. Since she split from her partner she raised her kid, competed with others, and made money. Now people said she’s a warrior, not gentle, polite anymore, and she said like, “I like a warrior with swords.”

My coworker said her attitudes are changing because she thinks her hair color doesn’t have to match her nature though she’s well past her Disney princess days. She likes makeup and uses different color for her hair, lip, and by trying a range of colors she feels adventurous.

A girl said she cares about social issues, but also wants to have a good mood, to feel glamorous, so she wears her favorite clothes, wears red lipstick, and creates graphic eye looks, which boosts her confidence, transforming her day!

My friend realized computer and phone emit blue light, which is bad for slow aging. She started doing something, she eats healthy food, adjusting her daily activities, working hard till noon, absorbing information in afternoon, having regular sex, and started anti-aging process.

A friend said he’s been dating for years, waiting for a perfect lover. But his lover emerged recently from a dinner. When asked how, he said at the dinner he said he liked current issues, and his lover liked shoes, handbags and makeup. When asked if they get along he said it was not perfect, but it was better than his previous one. 

A girl said she and her friend both are pretty, smart, and prepared for long time. After several tries her friend felt disappointed, regretted not have trained hard enough and felt like a failure, but she was lucky because she was damned sure she could be successful.  

My neighbor she used to fantasize things, sent messages to her crushes because she would ask which of her friends would she want to go on a date with. Since she liked makeup, flirting, saying she liked their stuff in a vaguely pattern, then she got the same lies in return and she regretted.

If you’re a person of full spectrum, you may want to kick ass but also feel vulnerable; sometimes you feel you like makeup, being a good person, but other day you have bad mood because you have to make decisions, such as having a child, birth control, getting fat.

A girl said she likes makeup, and wants to save herself; she also realized she’s not dumb, lazy person. Since she used to drink a lot, smoking a pack-a-day, now she wants to stop doing those stupid things, but she still buy cigarettes.

If you grew up in a remote and poor area, but had a lot of love, you may want to move to city, make some money, but you may also cheated by your guys, fooled by others, so you experience trauma and tragedy, but you learn something and your creative works may depict your lost love and your people.

When a girl said at the party that her friend likes makeup and flirtation, which let her start dating again, so people seemed to be interested; but her friend turned it into her passion again. She said her friend was chased by a guy before and started a relationship, but it was short-lived. So she started again, but she worried about losing her guy, feeling not worth anything again. So people laughed.