My friend is a people person, he lived in foreign countries, which let him be good at dealing with different people, customers, and sourcing providers. When he go to travel again for a fashion company, this time he not just gets the job done, but also finds his lover in life.  

If you’re a person of full spectrum, you may want to be a capable person, but you may also feel you are vulnerable; so sometimes you feel you like being a good person, but other day a bad guy because you have to make difficult decisions and you don’t know how to handle.

A guy said he was from a small town, had a difficult childhood, but he wanted to see outside world. When he managed to escape there, went to a city, worked for different jobs and suffered for years, and now he’s in the middle of glamour, creation, parties, and he has a sense of humor.

My neighbor said when she was young she wanted to accomplish something, have personal fulfillment because she didn’t want to be like her mother, who fell in love when she was young and her life was just raising children, doing things like many women do. After accomplishing something, she said she wanted to like her mother, to have kids, so she could have both.    

If you’re sexy, powerful and your friend is not, you may feel your friend gets more respect, even she’s not sexy. So you may also find when you and your friend go to work, to restaurant, to social with others, you may live in a sexy bubble and even hear people call you a bitch.

My neighbor had an early marriage and then ended up divorce. While her mother, friend, blamed on her stupidity, she started to date again. Now she’s smart: she gets her mother, friend’s advice, she even audits candidates for next date, and not let her guy being close to her body.

A guy said he received some encouragements and they had effect on him. So his friend asked like, “What effect?” The guy said like, “My talent developed over time.” The friend asked again, “How?” The guy said, “When my mouths open in concentration the encouragement I received let me become a professional.” They laughed.

My neighbor said she spends a lot of money to make her look younger, beautiful; she thinks this is her wisest move because she said there are certain things non-negotiable, such as er lover must be honest, no cheating. When asked what else she wants, she said like, “That’s all,” for those things just like her drinking coffee everyday, sleeping with a pillow.

My neighbor said she wanted to do a good job, but though her creation is meaningful, it’s diminished by others. So she feels a woman’s job is considered inferior, but she said it’s nonsense. #girlshavedreams #becomefamous #designerdress #stayingyoung #beautysurgery #foodchoices #facemask #culturalshifts #arrogantman

A girl said she’s the one with enviable curves, and her boss, her parent and even her boyfriend go beyond that of normal demand; she said she’s reasonable, she never raised her voice, never called anyone name, never disrespected anyone, but she has to face the ugly reality and she feels painful.

A girl said after fooled by her ex she wanted to have a good mood; when she learned how looking glamorous, she started wearing her favorite clothes, wearing red lipstick and creating graphic eye looks, which boosted her confidence again, transforming her day!

Some people said they have full spectrum because sometimes they want to kick ass but also vulnerable; one girl said she felt like being a good person, but other day wanted to be a bitch; when she left a guy who cheated on her, she had to make a decision and she encountered a dilemma: Having a child? Choosing a career? Or questions: Birth control? Getting fat? 

When my friend changed her view about vanity and fashion she met more friends. She used to be different because she said her parents’ union was not without its flaws. When she was in college she yearned to fit in, after college she had stress, but now she had her happiness, wanted to live a good life, but it didn’t last long because her guy was a weirdo.

My coworker changed a lot after having a child. Since she split from her partner she raised her kid, competed with others, and made money. Now people said she’s a warrior, not gentle, polite anymore, and she said like, “I like a warrior with swords.”

A girl said she went to a clinic because there was one wrinkle that bothered her. When doctor filled in the lines she was worried about, she enjoyed her treatment and said like, “I would go back.” Her friend said like, “Really?” She said, “It made me feel upbeat, like a rebirth.”

A guy said he’d been dating for years, waiting for a perfect lover. When his lover emerged from a dinner, his friend said like, “Really?” He said like, “Yes,” he said at dinner he talked about current issues, his lover liked makeup, shoes, handbags. So his friend asked if they got along, he said like, “Yeah.” He said it was not perfect, but it was better than his previous one.  

My neighbor said she didn’t plan on doing those things because she felt she didn’t fit into that world. Since she went through an awkward period, surrounded by beautiful girls with boobs, she needed to work very hard, to develop her personality.

A girl said she and her guy are still together after he cheated on her, but it’s stressful. When they moved to the city, they were dirt poor and they used their meager salaries to pay rent, support their family, and play sports. They had arguments, she cried, but they also laughed, did charity. Now things seemed changed.

At the party a girl said she’s a blabbermouth because she tells people everything: her friends, family, job. When starts to date she met a guy, just like her: He’s also eager to tell everything, including his cheating, so she said she doesn’t know what to do.

If you want to prevent bad things affect your mood or whenever something let you feel emotional, affects your mood, you may recall your best moments: when you were on beach, the sand beneath your feet, your candle, happy scent, you might feel energetic, becoming positive again.

A girl said she’s single and always greets others. She says “Hi, sweetie” to her friends, which let others talk about her. When one guy asked like, “She’s still single?” Another guy said like, “Yep, but she wants to meet someone who is also sweet.” So the guy said like, “Hmm...” because he just got rid of a scandal.

A friend said she went to a clinic for help and wanted to solve her problem: she didn’t know herself well and couldn’t get happiness. When the therapist said her problem was her self-deceit, so she realized she used her self-deceit to give her a competitive edge. When she was using self-deceit for her lying, it got caught, so people questioned her character.

If your creation is deep, beyond appearance; or your design, painting, writing is not just a statement, image, but also a spirited work, you may realize your creation reflects an immediate reality, grief, suffering, joy. #temptationofwomen #badneighborhood #bohemianstyle #dressupforlover #weirdperson #meangirls #revengesex #enjoyscenery #amazingguy #healthyfood

If you are tired of exaggerations you may argue with others; or your guy worked for a company one year, but he said he worked there for several years in his resume; or if your guy gave you some stuff, you said they smell good, so your guy said they were from a garden with seasonal ingredients, you may say it’s too much and want to leave him.

A guy said he felt good when someone treated him well. Once he paid less for luxury stuff, got more for less money. He also said he rather banging his head against a wall than not letting others feel special. #liftmood #lifeexperience #savemoney #sexygirl #unfairthings #beflexible #notstuck #mademistakes

Strange Place: If you go to a strange place, find your high school friend live there and your friend take you to an old area, and you guys sit, drink wine, chat, you may feel your trip broadens your mind, want to see more strange places. #strangefeeling #culturalshifts #beautyfood #lifechange #neversaynever #changeyourself #babypressure #embarrassingthing #peoplewatching

Phone Shaped: A girl said she likes fashion and wants to be a reporter, a freelancer; but she only uses her phone to look at the fashion clothes, bags, shoes, and sends message, takes photos; when her friend said she needs to read books, write articles, instead of doing everything in a short form, like a few lines, a phone shaped passage, she realized she still has a long way to go.

As a professional I traveled around the world and sometimes found places I liked, where the local people speaking its dialect, had its own tradition; once I went to my home town and realized that it has its older era because local guys growing their food, catching their fish, and liking their green life, which surprised me.

Some people said current slow economic growth together with wars and geopolitical conflicts will have a decades-long effect for both developed and developing countries, for struggling to improve their people’s livelihoods, to access public goods such as education and healthcare. Others said a slow economic growth means productivity decline, which becomes a major concern for them because of less opportunities.

My friend’s a people person and lived in foreign countries; when her experience let her be good at dealing with customers, sourcing providers for makeup stuff and toys, she went to travel again, and this time she not just got the job done but also found her lover in life.